Of the many names I’ve been called in my life – Uncle Fred has stuck with almost everyone! When I began dating my wife, she was divorced with 2 very young children. My teenage nieces often babysat the 2 little ones. My nieces called me Uncle Fred – the kids picked it up. Since then my wife’s 3 brothers and their wives have joined the group, along with their combined 11 children – and then their 33 grandchildren – and now their 9 great-grandchildren. My friends felt outnumbered, so they joined in. The kids still call me Uncle Fred – as well as DAD! – and so do their friends and in-laws. There’s little chance I’ll forget that name – but I thought I’d better write these stories down while I can still remember!

Friday, April 12, 2013

MOVING OUT and MOVING ON...



I worked in the same firehouse for 6 years.  My dad would come up from Florida 2 or 3 times a year and stay with my sister.  Since I had come with the house, he got to see both of us.  I think Mom would send him up to NY to get him out of her hair.  She worked all day and he was home alone all day.  My Dad would come to the firehouse when I was working day shift.  And when I worked a night shift he came and stayed untilabout 10 PM and then would go home.  The first day he came to the firehouse he asked if they played cards.  Of course they did.  My dad was a great pinochle player.  The officers and senior men always played.  They loved to have him come and play even though he beat them most of the time.  I think the fact that he brought beer with him also helped.  

I was on the job about a year and a half and there was a fellow I went to high school with who was a firefighter.  He was on about 3 years and worked on the other side of down (rough side).  He called me and asked if I was going to the firefighters convention at Grossingers in the Catskills.  I told him I was thinking about it.  He said the rate for the convention was 2 to a room - let’s share a room.  It was a long weekend convention so we decided to take the rest of the week off and head to the Jersey shore afterwards.  We had a blast.  On the way home I told him I was living with my sister and I wanted to find an apartment.  He said that he still lived at home with his parents and was looking for an apartment, too.  We found an apartment near my firehouse.  It was in an 8 story brick building – the owner owned 2 or 3 other buildings and thought it would be great to have firemen as tenants.  He had a 2 bedroom apt. on the 1st floor – we took it.  

We didn’t have much furniture but Bob’s Mom gave us lots of stuff.  I think she was glad to get him out of her house and on his own.  We drew straws to see who got the BR without a window.  He drew the windowless room but, in the long run, it worked out great for him.  My BR window and the kitchen window faced south.  The south side of our building faced a large parking lot.  Half belonged to our building and half belonged to the 10 story apt. building next door.  Bob and I worked opposite shifts and we were home together about once a week.  There were 2 girls who lived in the next building on the 5th or 6th floor.  I think they looked out their window and when we came home, they would come over and ask if we wanted to come over for dinner, go out for a drink, or go to the movies.  In the winter, when we got home about 6:30 it was dark.  When we turned on the kitchen lights, they would show up at our window or call us on the phone.  In those days, we had to wear our fire uniforms back and forth to the firehouse.  I was telling Bob that in the mornings, I laid out my civilian clothes on my bed and when I got home I had to sneak into the apt without turning on the lights.  I put my uniform on the bed, put on my civilian clothes, and snuck out of the building.  He laughed and said he could turn on the light in his room because it didn’t have a window but he had to sneak out of the building too.  We went to the apt. owner and told him about the girls and that we needed another apt. He had one in a different building.  It was newer and bigger and more $ but we took it.   
 
Before we moved out, Bob started dating a girl who had a big Doberman.  We had parquet wood flooring down the hall to the bathroom.  I would come home and see water stains on the wood floor.  I would wax the floor and 2 days later the floor would be stained again (sounds like the odd couple).  I then found out this dog would come over, drink out of the toilet, and dribble down the hall.  Bob was babysitting this big dog.  

One Sunday afternoon, we decided to go to the movies.  Bob had just bought a brand new Ford Mustang – candy-apple red with white seats.  We took the dog with us (WHY???) – we left him in the car (another WHY???) and went to the movie.  When we came out, I walked up to the passenger side of the car and started laughing.  Bob looked in the car, but he didn’t laugh.  The dog had eaten all the leather and stuffing off the passenger seat.  I guess he was mad we didn't bring him any popcorn.  I had to sit on the wire springs for the ride home.  That was the last time I saw that dog or his mistress.  

When I was working at Western Electric, I went back to college at night.  I enrolled at Manhattan College School of Business.  The bosses at Western Electric said that if I got a C or better in any course in business admin that Manhattan College offered, they would pay the tuition and the cost of the books.  When I became a firefighter, I decided to continue my education.  Most firefighters had a second job (called a B job) that they did on their off time.  They jumped at the chance to work my night shifts and I would work their day shifts so they could work their B jobs and make more money.  I didn’t know if I was going to like being a firefighter.  After 3 years on the job, I decided that I loved it
and I would be a firefighter for the next 20 years.  So why was I spending all this time and money taking business administration?  Westchester Community College was starting a new curriculum in Fire Science.  I transferred to Westchester Community College.  The only courses they would transfer were electives so it took me another 2 years to graduate.  I was the only firefighter in my department to receive a degree in Fire Science.  There were only 9 of us in the first graduating class but the demand was increasing for this type of degree.  A few years later, they changed the degree to Public Safety so that Police, and  EMTs, as well as Firefighters, could qualify.  I had finally found my niche in life and my mother was so relieved! 

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